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Why β€œGrateful” Can Feel Like Bullshit When Dealing with Infertility and Reproductive Grief
Christen Reed, LMFT 12/2/25 Christen Reed, LMFT 12/2/25

Why β€œGrateful” Can Feel Like Bullshit When Dealing with Infertility and Reproductive Grief

Everyone says to β€œjust be grateful.” But when you’re navigating infertility or loss, gratitude can feel impossible. Here’s why that’s okay.

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Mother’s Day is complicated when motherhood hasn’t come the way you hoped. The world this weekend will feel loud in ways that make your grief feel very quiet. And that invisibility is its own kind of hard. You don’t have to smile th
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If you’re in
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Many people have sat with a therapist who felt more like a wall than a human being. And that experience can make it hard to try again, or to try at all.

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Infertility grief is some of the loneliest grief there is. As a therapist who specializes in this space, I talk about it everyday, but this week feels like a good moment to say it a little louder: 

Your grief is real, it matters, and you don’t
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πŸ’Ύ Saving this for when you need it is more than okay.

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